Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Who do you think you are?


self-image graphicThis is not a trick question or a TV show that has surfaced around the world, it is meant to be a genuine question that requires a sincere and genuine answer.  The answer should not be flippant or verbalized quickly but rather it should reflect your inner most beliefs and sincere thought because it just might reveal to you a inner and deep feeling that might transform your life.

The statement, who do you think you are, is more about your soul seeking the answer and not your head.  It might require you sitting in a quiet place so that the stillness can speak to you and invite you to explore those aspects of self that quite possibly have been ignored.   

Some people think that they are nobodies—their mind has been brainwashed to believe that they are socially awkward and different from others. They don’t fit in and they feel insecure as well as lack self-confidence. I know a teenage who has low self-esteem, he doesn’t feel as though he has a support team to help him survive in the tumultuous times of his teens so he has become lazy, lacks motivation and is passively angry.  He actually has a very high IQ but because he doesn’t feel socially accepted, he has withdrawn and decided that he does not have the skills or ability to get through. At this moment in his life he is experiencing emotional and physical discomfort. The more he gives up and gives in the more depressed he becomes and the less his family seem to notice and help. Who does he think he is?  I asked that question of him but he was unsure how to respond because he was not sure of who he is or what he needs to do to get out of this uneasy situation.  His only comments are—it is hard!

self-image -positive graphicNo one can change your mind if you are closed down and unwilling to try.  Whoever you think you are is what you will become.  Your attitude whether it is positive or negative will dictate how you perceive life and how you work it.  It is interesting to notice how people perceive themselves.  Some think they are above the crowd and in their sense of being superior, they often trample on others or simply ignore them while others feel that they have nothing to offer so they withdraw and play dumb and become indifferent. 

Who do you think you are and why?  It is important for you to evaluate your attributes and character traits and also your shortcomings and learn from them, identify with those qualities that will enhance you and your life and attempt to change those that will drag you down and stop your forward motion.

We all have egos that try to protect us from harm and embarrassment but I encourage you not to allow your ego to make excuses for you.  Instead, allow your soul and your inner self to speak to you and share messages that will enable you to move away from your weak spots and find the courage and power within to stand tall and honor your authentic self. You are a gift from God who has come to Earth to fulfill your destiny and make a difference in your world environment.  Embrace those thoughts and watch your life change for the better as you begin to convince your mind, heart and soul that you indeed are special and have something special to offer yourself and others. 


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