Take control of your life

We all have choices in life—I suggest that you do not choose by default!  My objective is to empower the human spirit to superior performance and intent through mastering your innate skills and talents.

It is difficult to grow in an environment that is littered with obstacles and roadblocks.  One of my first steps is to help you revive your energy field, dust away the contaminated thoughts and beliefs that have prevented your success and supply you with the right nutrients that will feed your soul and heal your mental outlook.  When you are able to do that, you will be filled with the right light (Spirit-filled) energy and inspirational ideas to bring in the enterprising mindset to manifest your desired outcome. 

If you can believe with all your heart and know that you can achieve, you will.

It is so easy to slide back into a sad afflicted state of doubt and regret but I encourage you NOT to let that happen.  Even I need, from time to time, to speak strongly to myself and remind me of who I am and what I want to accomplish.  It is a wise person who knows and understands their limitations and pushes through them. 

In truth, we can be our own worst enemy.  Do you believe that this is your time to nurture your entire being and not poison it with worry, fear or resentment?  Too often people want to put their trust in others, the governmental agencies, their boss or partners or anyone else who will take on the role.  That is a cope out!  What you are actually saying is that you feel limited with your capabilities and want some one or some thing else to direct your path.  This is a year where anything can happen.  There are limitless possibilities awaiting you if and when you are ready to stand tall, look at life with optimism and embrace the unknown. 

When you are ready to push forward with your life, you will also need to step out of your comfort zone and try something new.  We all have been anxious and nervous from time to time because we were feeling vulnerable.  That is natural and normal.  That is when you need to take a deep breath in and see this moment as an opportunity for you to thrive and grow.  I have often found myself saying—“What is the worst thing that can happen to me?”  In truth nothing!  Feeling uncomfortable is an emotional state that we fall into when we allow our ego minds to take us out and stop our forward movement.  That is when I realize that my fear is self-inflicted and ungrounded.  I am then able to laugh at myself and begin to visualize an outcome that I am seeking.  Yes, the unknown is a mystery to me and yes, I am not sure exactly how I am going to get there but one thing is certain, if and when I am willing to take all the action steps that are required for me to reach my destination, I will discover and experience a life that is exhilarating.  Yes—that is what I have been dreaming about.

Another way to help you feel grounded and safe is through meditation.  I have found that I need to do a short mediation daily.  It has helped me stay focused, it releases my anxiety and places me in a state of calm and introspection which has been most valuable for me. 

Maybe it is time for you to take control of your life and start one step at a time in reshaping your destiny. What are you waiting for?


 Joan Marie Ambrose

Author, Creative Writer, Motivational Speaker